But the truth is, it would never ever happend. I always wonder why people, especially those who claim that they are grown-ups, always say one thing but act another. Like this couple, they act like they're ok couples, but actually they are nothing but dead inside. I am somehow dead inside too, because I know it would never ever possible to bring any light into their hearts. It is so sad, isn't it? But that is life, you can't change people. You cannot teach them how to be happy with their lives, because they are just used to their unhappiness. Stupid but true. But whatever, I gave up. I think it is rather good to see the positive side of it-that they finally could get out of their "Karma" and move on with their lives after years of toturing each other. That is nice in many ways. And I am tired of getting involved with the arguments and fights between them. And I think it is time to walk out of it, and gain back my own life. Bye-bye, mom and dad, bye. I appreciate what you have done for me...but let me learn how to love you guys in a different way, and when that happens, maybe I can go back to see you guys without feeling that I am dying inside piece by piece...
Sunday, December 31, 2006
Pictures of 2006--Hurtful Feelings
My parents. That I used to hope that they get along fine. 
But the truth is, it would never ever happend. I always wonder why people, especially those who claim that they are grown-ups, always say one thing but act another. Like this couple, they act like they're ok couples, but actually they are nothing but dead inside. I am somehow dead inside too, because I know it would never ever possible to bring any light into their hearts. It is so sad, isn't it? But that is life, you can't change people. You cannot teach them how to be happy with their lives, because they are just used to their unhappiness. Stupid but true. But whatever, I gave up. I think it is rather good to see the positive side of it-that they finally could get out of their "Karma" and move on with their lives after years of toturing each other. That is nice in many ways. And I am tired of getting involved with the arguments and fights between them. And I think it is time to walk out of it, and gain back my own life. Bye-bye, mom and dad, bye. I appreciate what you have done for me...but let me learn how to love you guys in a different way, and when that happens, maybe I can go back to see you guys without feeling that I am dying inside piece by piece...
But the truth is, it would never ever happend. I always wonder why people, especially those who claim that they are grown-ups, always say one thing but act another. Like this couple, they act like they're ok couples, but actually they are nothing but dead inside. I am somehow dead inside too, because I know it would never ever possible to bring any light into their hearts. It is so sad, isn't it? But that is life, you can't change people. You cannot teach them how to be happy with their lives, because they are just used to their unhappiness. Stupid but true. But whatever, I gave up. I think it is rather good to see the positive side of it-that they finally could get out of their "Karma" and move on with their lives after years of toturing each other. That is nice in many ways. And I am tired of getting involved with the arguments and fights between them. And I think it is time to walk out of it, and gain back my own life. Bye-bye, mom and dad, bye. I appreciate what you have done for me...but let me learn how to love you guys in a different way, and when that happens, maybe I can go back to see you guys without feeling that I am dying inside piece by piece...
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What's Ahead for Romance and Relationships in 2007?
Forget the supermarket tabloids with their wild predictions about romance and relationships during 2007 among the red-carpet set. We asked social scientists, psychologists, dating coaches, veteran daters and other experts to predict the love trends in 2007 - trends that the rest of us might actually experience. Here's what they told us.
"2007 will continue to be an era of 'convenience-dating' - online dating, speed dating, and for the younger generation, getting dates via social networking sites," predicts Hilary Black. "More than ever, single people -- especially in urban areas -- are far less anxious to settle down and get married." -- Black is the editor-in-chief of Tango magazine. Tangomag.com
"2007 will find people getting (and demanding) more from online dating services, especially in the way they look for potential matches," says Anna Zornosa. "They should be able to view profiles in a way that reflects their individual priorities, to see all the information they need without hunting and pecking. Better profile presentation will make connecting online easier." -- Zornosa is the vice president and general manager of Yahoo! Personals. personals.yahoo.com
"People are learning that they can thrive even when they're not coupled up," says Jen Schefft. "I think many will become smarter daters. They'll wait to find the right partner rather than stay involved with someone who is just-fine-for-right-now." -- Schefft, the winning bachelorette for the fourth season of The Bachelor who was also chosen as the third season Bachelorette, is the author of "Better Single Than Sorry: A No-Regrets Guide to Loving Yourself and Never Settling," to be published by William Morrow in January 2007.
"Trend: More dates," predicts Nancy Slotnick. "People are craving the intimacy that only a face-to-face date can bring, so singles will date more often and challenge themselves to text less, meet more." -- Slotnick, author of "Turn Your Cablight On, Get Your Dream Man in 6 Months or Less," is a relationship expert and lovelife coach who runs the Most Eligible Program. Cablight.com
"An astronomical 90 million singles now make up the majority of households in the country," observes Dalma Heyn, MSW. "What will they do in 2007? Date! These daters will be in their 50s and 60s, not just in their teens and twenties." -- Heyn is the author of "Drama Kings: The Men Who Drive Strong Women Crazy." Dalmaheyn.net
"Online dating finally matures," says Evan Marc Katz. "Seniors get comfortable with it. Divorcees fully embrace it. And the 20- and 30-something players stop playing and start getting serious. The dating sites realize that they need to produce a higher quality product to help their clients succeed and offer services that create better transparency such as background checks, rating systems and video chat." -- Katz, founder of E-Cyrano.com, is a personal trainer for online daters who are looking for love. evanmarckatz.com
"With the competition for dates rising online, singles will need to be bolder in their profiles to invite more responses," says Liz Kelly. "Watch for more creative headlines, interesting short stories and funny photographs. More singles will also post voice and video greetings online as this technology takes off in 2007. " -- Kelly is a dating coach and author of "Smart Man Hunting" who also helps people with profile makeovers. smartmanhunting.com
"The new trend in relationships is making them meaningful," says Susanne M. Alexander. "Brief encounters that leave people feeling empty are on their way out. Being friends, making a soul connection, spending time doing activities like community service, getting to know each other's character, and making a commitment to work toward marriage are the way of the future." -- Alexander is a relationship coach and author of "Can We Dance? Learning the Steps for a Fulfilling Relationship." marriagetransformation.com
"This year it's not about marriage," says Lissa Coffey, "but it is about commitment and monogamy. We've seen enough celebrity marriages fail. Now we're looking to long-time loves like Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell as role models." -- Coffey is a dating and relationship expert and the author of "What's Your Dosha, Baby?" coffeytalk.com
"In 2007 more Gorgeous Grandmas will be looking for serious relationships with younger men," says Alice Solomon. "It can be a win-win situation for both." -- Solomon is a columnist, radio host and author of "Find the Love of Your Life After Fifty." GorgeousGrandma.com
"Nothing can or ever will replace a warm, secure and life-long marriage," says John Van Epp. "Relationship fashions come and go, but singles will continue to search for a way to find a fulfilling love that lasts a lifetime. 'Pace your relationship' will be the mantra for the New Year." -- Van Epp is the author of "How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk: The Foolproof Way to Follow Your Heart Without Losing Your Mind." nojerks.com
"We will begin to value more deeply all of the relationships that are important to us, not just romantic ones," says Bella DePaulo, Ph.D. "Single people will pursue their passions and live their lives fully. When and if they do seek romance, they will do so from a position of strength, not neediness." -- DePaulo is the author of "Singled Out: How Singles are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After."
"In 2007 more and more people will look online for love -- searching everywhere from social networking sites to alumni sites to online dating services," predicts Susan Mernit. "For the most casual daters, social networks will continue to be great spots to meet friends of friends, but social networks will start to 'graduate' to more focused online dating sites as social network users -- and younger daters -- hone in on finding longer-term relationships." -- Mernit is Yahoo! Personals' relationship expert. personals.yahoo.com
"Odd years are good for both personal and career success. So this makes 2007 an anticipated year for singles," predicts Ranee A. Spina. "With our sexually aggressive society, and celebrities who flaunt throwaway marriages, singles who embrace more traditional courting will find a lasting relationship." -- Spina is a national relationship speaker and author of "I AM Before 'I Do.'" iambeforeido.com
"Women's expectations of men will get higher, while their attitudes about men will get worse," says Karen Jones. "This will lead to a lot of heartache for many men and women, as both strive to feel understood and to believe their needs will be met in their intimate relationships." -- Jones, a women's relationship coach since 1997, is working on her new book, "Men are Great." theheartmatters.com
"The traditional 'date' is about as revealing as the essay portion of the Miss America pageant," says Heather G. Estay. "In 2007 we won't waste precious time shaving our legs or faces for dates that don't move a relationship forward. Instead, we'll get creative with activities that do. For instance, 18 holes of golf expose more about character than 40 years of marriage." -- Estay is the author of "It's Never Too Late to Get a Life," a humorous look at the post-40 dating game. heatherestay.com
"We predict women will become more aware of the value of their romantic relations and will make decisions about whether or not to continue with relationships that are not working for them sooner rather than later." -- Judy Bolton and Wendy Bolton Floyd, authors of "When Did You Know...He Was Not The One?" due in bookstores in February 2007. whendidyouknow.net
"Marriages are dying out faster than ever: the average marriage is now under seven years," observes Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. "This means that more and more singles are entering the dating scene. And single people report being less happy and satisfied with their lives. So in 2007 there will be more dating, especially online dating, which has become a highly accepted and successful road to love. This means your chances of meeting the love of your life will be better than ever!" -- Kirschner, a therapist, produced and starred in "Love in 90 Days Boot Camp," named a 2006 New York Television Festival Official Selection. openinglovesdoor.com
"Women will be taking more of the lead in dating and relationships," says Toni Coleman. "More women will be asking men out, making the plans, picking up the tab and proposing marriage. New services and products will cater to this new trend -- engagement gifts for men (rings?), first date tokens of affection, male-oriented venues for proposal weekend getaways, and more books and classes designed to teach women the how-to of courting and romancing their guy." -- Coleman is a licensed psychotherapist and dating/relationship coach. consum-mate.com
"People will begin to recognize that ego is the obstacle to love and joy," predicts Eve Eschner Hogan. "They will begin to take responsibility for their thoughts, words and actions, aligning them with what is really important and what they are trying to create -- love. They will discover their personal power for creating satisfying relationships." -- Hogan is the author of "How to Love Your Marriage," "Intellectual Foreplay" and "Virtual Foreplay." EveHogan.com
"Safety will be on the minds of online daters in 2007," says Jeff Cohen. "In an effort to protect identities as long as possible, more and more singles will turn to anonymous phone numbers. Companies like AliasLine now offer anonymous numbers that automatically redirect to your home, business or cell number." -- Cohen is the author of "Dating, Inc.: Recruit, Select, and Retain the Right Man for a Relationship" and is About.com's Guide to Dating.
"For singles 50-plus in 2007, the new mantra will be: 'Get off the couch and out of the house,'" says Tom Blake. "Don't go out to meet a mate -- instead, go out to enrich your life by pursuing activities you enjoy. Love will find you when you least expect it. Join a club, travel, volunteer, go back to school, take a fun part-time job. The choices are endless." -- Blake is the "Single Again" columnist for the Orange County (California) Register and the author of "Finding Love After 50. How to Begin. Where to Go. What to Do." findingloveafter50.com
"Singles will continue to be determined to meet their soul mates," says Barbara Bartlein. "Meeting online and through sophisticated dating services will continue to gain in popularity, especially for older adults. The trend for people to live together will continue to increase." -- Bartlein is the author of "Why Did I Marry You Anyway? 12.5 Strategies for a Happy Marriage." ThePeoplePro.com
"For the first time in U.S. history, there are more single adults than married ones," observes April Masini. "The marriage industry is booming - though not quite as much as the divorce industry. This means dating is here to stay, and romance is on the rise for 2007. With technology making your picture available more often in more places -- phone, email, YouTube, i-Chat and other vehicles -- appearance and physical presentation is hot for 2007. Look your best!" -- Masini writes the "Ask April" advice column. She is the author of "Date Out of Your League" and "Think and Date Like A Man."
"I hope people are going to rediscover the power of friends, friendship and a social network," says Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. "Instead of watching 'Friends' on TV, get out and spend time with real people. Discover how having a great social life can lead to a great romance." -- Tessina is a psychotherapist and author of "The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again." Photo Copyright ©2005 by Nicole Katano
"Online daters are getting increasingly fed up with those who lie or distort in their profiles, photos or emails and are looking for ways to find out what is really true," cautions Kathryn Lord. "Online searches, background checks, reporting bad behavior, and ending contact when lies are discovered will become more the norm in 2007. Those looking for 'just sex' (and who may be are married as well) are finding sites that cater to them, so the big sites like Yahoo! Personals are increasingly populated by the truly single who are seriously looking for love. Folks will become more honest and better behaved online and off." -- Lord, a romance coach, is online at Find-a-Sweetheart.com and is the author of the ebook "Find a Sweetheart Soon!"
"2007 is HEAVEN for love!," says Dr. Gilda Carle. "Singles are the largest growing sector of the population, and most are seeking love online. The urge to merge will see more baby boomers and seniors learning new dating rules and honing computer skills so they can challenge Cupid for her bow." -- Carle is a psychotherapist/relationship expert and author of "Don't Bet on the Prince!" DrGilda.com
"I believe people will evaluate their relationships carefully in '07," predicts Stacy D. Phillips. "They will stay in the relationships they perceive to be valuable, but forgo those that seem to be a struggle. As news reports continue to be saturated with school shootings, war and terrorist attacks, people will realize they have only one life to live!" -- Phillips, a certified family law specialist, is the author of "Divorce: It's All About Control - How To Win The Emotional, Psychological and Legal Wars." controlyourdivorce.com
"Passionate second marriages for boomers refusing to age and pursuing health/fitness will multiply," predicts Debbie Mandel. "Many boomer divorcees/widows will choose to live and travel with other females. Marriages happen later for first-timers refusing to be pressured by biological clocks." -- Mandel, M.A., author of "Changing Habits" and "Turn on Your Inner Light," is a university lecturer and radio show host. turnonyourinnerlight.com
"With the hectic pace of life today, established couples are wising up about the necessity of scheduling in romantic time, rather than waiting for it to happen spontaneously. They're figuring out that to have passion, once past the lust stage, you can't just coast, you have to steer." -- Psychologist Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., a Boston-based relationship and sex expert, is author of SexSmart and SexTalk. sexsmart.com
"2006 was the 'He's just not that into you' year," says Steve Nakamoto. "In the coming year, women will become more proactive about how they go about finding love. These more enlightened women will no longer tolerate waiting for the men in their love lives to decide whether they are 'into them or not.'" -- Nakamoto is an online dating advisor and the author of "Men Are Like Fish" and "Dating Rocks!" MenAreLikeFish.com
"Repeat after me: I, (insert name), hereby resolve to kick-start my love life by making online dating a priority of the past. In 2007 I'll instead focus on making myself more 'attractive' and 'approachable' IN PERSON, and leave my love affair with the computer at home! After all, does listing your 'favorite ice cream flavors' have ANYTHING to do with romance?" -- David Wygant is the author of "Always Talk to Strangers: 3 Simple Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life." davidwygant.com/
"The use of online dating services will continue to grow as old fears and stigma disappear," predicts Laurie Helgoe, Ph.D. "More online daters will provide honest photos or even risk dating without photos. Singles are tired of BS and will be quicker at moving on when it's not right. 2007 will witness the meeting of more soul mates." -- Helgoe is a psychologist and author of "The Boomer's Guide to Dating (Again)," "The Anxiety Answer Book" and the just-published "The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Breaking Up." wakingdesire.com
"In 2005, we predicted that romance and relationships would have a banner year in 2006," say Barbara and Michael Jonas. "The turmoil in the world would encourage people to seek commitment and love and the comfort they bring. And even though celebrities continued to bounce in and out of relationships, the divorce rate did not increase. Overall we think 2006 turned out to be romantically successful. The world is still in turmoil (if not worse than before), politics still make us uncomfortable, and the environment is still being despoiled. For all these reasons, and because being 'in love' is such a wonderful feeling, 2007 will be another excellent year for romance." -- The Jonases were named by People magazine one of "America's Most Romantic Couples." They've created Two to Tango - A Couple's Wish Box. timefortwo.com
"With young celebs sporting Huggies in Hermès bags and making mommyhood look glamorous, 20-somethings will follow in their swollen-ankle designer-shoe footsteps," says Jenni Kosarin. "Technological matchmaking still reigns, and IMs and emails continue to replace nervous phone calls, making the text message you didn't receive a good excuse when you're late for your own wedding." -- Kosarin, celeb gossip and love astrologer, is the author of "He's Just Not in the Stars." jennikosarin.com/
"The year's wonderful new opportunities make you feel more charming and radiant than ever," according to Astrology.com. "This is a great time to begin a new romantic adventure. Being mesmerized by life's pleasures and sensing a deep appreciation of beauty gets you ready for a romantic Valentine's Day, when life is beautiful and you're on track for lots of love and romantic surprises. Throughout April, you may be feeling totally connected and emotionally fired up to go forward and become passionately involved -- as if nothing will stand in your way. Bonds may become deeper and more spiritual than ever, and your beloved will become the center of your universe. Moments of feeling slightly cold feet and a little insecurity may present a need to work through any communication barriers that could keep the relationship from evolving. Creating quality and balance becomes a strong theme, as does relaxing more and enjoying some alone time. Throughout summer, strong and erotic energy is being sent out, and you feel lucky in love. By December, new romantic sparks are in the air, giving you fresh and wonderful new opportunities to recreate your relationship to your heart's content." -- Astrology.com offers a free sample one-week forecast for 2007.
"In 2007 couples will work toward making their relationships reconnect on many levels," predicts Dr. Karen Sherman. "To do so, they'll learn the skills needed to have a realistic and respectful relationship, start to reprioritize their lives so that they spend more time with each other, and become aware of the newest information about the brain and how to rewire it in order to get past the past." -- Sherman is a psychologist specializing in relationships and author of "Marriage Magic! Find It, Keep It, Make It Last." drkarensherman.com
"Immediate gratification is where it's at in '07. First it was speed dating, then it was fast tech (cell phone dating, anyone?) and now it's REALLY fast, as in, 'Are you free...in five?' I-dating is going to branch out into handheld services and specialized Web sites where users can find mates for 'right now,' no chatting/courting/deciding time required. Get that IM loaded up and ready to go: Chances are, there's someone trying to page you." -- Gemini and Scorpio are co-authors of Gemini and Scorpio's Fabulous Guide to Online Dating.
"We're probably going to see a lot more baby boomers opt for Domestic Partnership status rather than wedding vows. Since this group tends to have more assets to safeguard, and because they may have lost out financially in a prior marriage, they will be more cautious and far wiser." -- Bob Nachshin and Scott Weston are certified family law specialists in West Los Angeles, California, and the authors of "I Do, You Do...But Just Sign Here: A Quick and Easy Guide to Cohabitation, Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements."
"The new trend in 2007 will be more playfulness and more active pursuit of companionate love, as opposed to passionate love, among active singles who are not yet ready to commit but are tired of the monastic lifestyle," says Terri Orbuch, Ph.D. "For couples, 2007 will be a great year to turn off the news and go take a salsa dance class with your partner, or plan more romantic dates to ignite passion." -- Orbuch, aka The Love Doctor, is a psychologist and university professor. Her relationship segments air on TV and radio. detroitlovedr.com
"2007 will be the year of more successful New Year's resolutions in the world of relationships," says Jan Newman. "Taking a chance on life and understanding one's mindset toward chance will play an important role in finding a meaningful relationship. More people will open their hearts to love, and be loved in return." -- Newman is the author of "Chance Meetings that Tied the Knot, Finding Love When Least Expected." ChanceMeetingsThatTiedTheKnot.com
"Single people will become more wired, lonesome and lonely in their virtual high-tech existence," says Carleton Kendrick, Ed.M., LCSW. "More young people will become enmeshed in the sterile, guarded, silicon world of promised friendship, dating and romance, eschewing real-life interactions, both casual and intimate. As a therapist, I will witness more marriages threatened by cyber-infidelity." -- Kendrick is a family therapist, speaker, media commentator and co-author of "Take Out Your Nose Ring, Honey, We're Going to Grandma's."
"When the economy is bad, relationships suffer," says Molly Barrow, Ph.D. "A poor economy can drive marriages to distraction as families try to stretch their budget. Divorces, job loss, lack of health care benefits, homes in foreclosure and higher abortion rates often reflect the state of our economy more than the failure of relationships." -- Barrow, a clinical psychologist, is the author of the relationship self-help book "Matchlines." askdrmolly.com
"Single people who do the real work to shed the baggage of their romantic pasts will be willing and able to find life-long mates," says Russell Friedman. "Those who don't do the work will just accumulate more baggage and go from breakup to breakup, until they quit trying. Be in the first group." -- Friedman is the co-author of "Moving On: Dump Your Relationship Baggage and Make Room for the Love of Your Life."
"The honeymoon period with Internet dating and social networking is ending and people are becoming turned off by the safety concerns as well as the disingenuous nature of 'friending' hundreds of people you may never meet in person," says Sharon Gaffney. "In 2007 people will embrace the idea of using the Internet to make plans to meet new people while hanging out with friends -- groups of friends meeting other groups of friends." -- Gaffney is the co-founder of LetsMeetOut.com.
-- Compiled by Rad Dewey, Yahoo! Personals
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