告解一下。這個週末，都是我的錯。
身體超級超級不舒服的，卻跑去參加加拿大慶生派對，
在海邊曬了一下午毒辣辣的太陽。
然後隔天，又和爸爸妹妹去吃好吃的一碗小羊肉還加麻油麵線。
結果晚上報應果然來了吧。
晚餐的三塊比薩，
全都在經痛血管收縮得厲害加上頭痛劇烈的感覺裡面，
連著兩顆止痛藥，全部一起給吐出來了。
一共兩次，一次在洗手台，一次在浴缸，陣陣嘔吐聲把室友給引出來，
還很好心的去幫我買了礦泉水飲料和水果。
晚上於是吹著冷氣，抱著棉被，昏昏入睡，
哇靠我的身體從來就沒有這麼像是因為反對我而存在著。
對不起啊，我的身體，都是我的錯，不該讓妳這麼受苦受難。
我一定會好好的對待妳的，寶貝。我保證～
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研究顯示 男人與女人一樣長舌
更新日期:2007/07/06 02:50 記者:F80李怡倩
（法新社芝加哥五日電） 根據今天公布的一項研究結果，男人與女人喜好閒扯的程度相同，此一發現對女人比男人長舌的觀念形成質疑。
美國研究員追蹤近四百個美國與墨西哥學生平日的說話習慣發現，一整天下來不論是男性或女性，說話滔滔不絕的比率非常相近，即便是不同主題。
這項研究結果挑戰了一般民眾對女人喋喋不休而男人沉默寡言的刻板印象，這樣的印象經常出現於書中、歌曲甚至是電影裡。鄉村歌托比手凱斯膾炙人口的歌曲「I wanna talk about me」，就表達出想讓女友閉上嘴聽他說話的心聲。
亞利桑那大學心理系助理教授、同時也是這項報告的主要執筆人梅爾說，有關女人喋喋不休而男性沉默寡言的概念毫無事實根據。
女人喋喋不休的概念存在已久，可從去年出版的書籍「女性大腦」中得到一些科學佐證。
但梅爾與德州大學同僚以學生進行實驗的結果顯示，女學生平均一天說一萬六千兩百一十五個字，男學生說一萬五千六百六十九個字，在統計學上可說並無太大差異。
研究員指出，他們談論的不是同樣的事，女性通常討論人的話題，而男性比較常討論工具或車的話題。
這篇報告已發表在「科學」雜誌上。
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Science Quiets Myth of 'Chatterbox' Females
July 5, 2007 03:55:51 PM PST
By E.J. Mundell
HealthDay Reporter
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THURSDAY, July 5 (HealthDay News) -- New research finding men and women speak roughly the same number of words each day is likely to get both sexes talking, experts say.
Researchers recorded the daily conversations of 400 university students in the United States and Mexico over a period of several days. They found that females spoke about 16,215 words each day, and males uttered an average of 15,669 words, which was considered a statistical dead heat.
"So, counter to stereotypes, there doesn't seem to be evidence that males and females talk at different rates, at least among college students," said study author James Pennebaker, the psychology department chairman at the University of Texas at Austin.
His team published the findings in the July 6 issue of Science.
Well-worn clichés about women being chatterboxes all stem from the same cultural notion -- that they love talking much more than men, experts said..
But there has never been any scientific proof to back up that stereotype, said Marianne LaFrance, a professor of psychology and women's gender and sexuality studies at Yale University.
In her own and others' work, LaFrance noted, "the research is consistently showing either no sex differences in the amount that men and women talk, or if there is a difference, then it depends on the context. For example, in a professional context, men actually outspeak women by a long shot."
That's why behavioral psychologists won't be overly surprised by the Science findings, added LaFrance, who was not involved in this research. "What's novel here isn't the findings but rather the methodology," she said..
Because of recent advances in technology, Pennebaker's group was able to design a cell phone-sized recording device that the study participants could carry in a pocket while their everyday conversations were taped by a mike clipped to their lapel. The participants quickly forgot they were wearing the recorder, Pennebaker said, and "after the first couple of hours, people rarely made mention of the device."
And unlike prior studies, where participants had some control over when and where the recorder was switched on, the device used in the new study automatically clicked on every 12 minutes to record whatever was being said -- or not said -- for the next 30 seconds.
The 19- to 25-year-olds in the study wore the voice recorders for several days each.
The result: Pennebaker's team found no gender difference whatsoever in the amount of talking done each day by these young men and women.
According to Pennebaker, it's still possible that differences in verbalization between the sexes emerge as people age. And he said the study's focus on college students might also ignore behavioral differences between men and women based on social class.
But LaFrance believes that prevailing notions of the "female chatterbox" have cultural and political roots based in sexism.
"There's this prevailing idea that women are engaged in trivia, in minutia, silly patter," she said. On the other hand, stereotypical men are thought to hang back, silent, until they have something really important to say.
But study after study refutes these pat assumptions, the Yale expert said. For example, there's ample evidence that gossip is just as popular a topic of conversation (if not more so) among men as it is among women, LaFrance said.
However, it is true that women and men tend to favor distinct subject matter when they talk, she said.
"The data shows that women do tend to talk about relationships more," LaFrance said. And it's possible that this desire by women to better understand other people, most notably their partners, has given rise to certain stereotypes.
"If I were going to guess why people think women talk more, it would be that it probably comes from what happens during [romantic] conflict," Pennebaker said. "There have been some studies to suggest that during emotional conflict, guys get quiet and women talk more."
Even though the tendency of males to "clam up" in these private disputes doesn't carry over to other social contexts, people may generalize that men are withdrawn by nature, Pennebaker said.
LaFrance agreed. "One of the biggest complaints in heterosexual relationships that women have is the 'unforthcomingness' of their male partners," she said. "That may be where part of these stereotypes come from."
But the experts agreed that men can quickly become much more verbal when the mood strikes them.
In marital conflict situations, "the data shows that it depends what they're talking about," LaFrance said.
"If she wants to talk about something that he cares about, then he will respond," she added.
And subject matter is also key, she noted: "Just get guys talking about sports or finance or lawnmowers -- then you've got another category of chatterboxes."
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